One side divorce
My wife and her parents went to my maternal uncle's house and said him my wife wants divorce from me.
Reasons - 1. I have become verbally abusive. 2. I am not earning from reputed sources. 3. I am asking her to work and take care of her own expenses.
My counter / my marriage story.
We got engaged in july 2020, married in dec 2020. she hid her academics from me saying she is a graduate but she later told me she has not completed her graduation in sept 2020, We went to her college and retracted the letter of discontinue her academics. I helped her complete her graduation by preparing exam question and answers. and everything that followed with her educational expenses as well (only college fees paid by her father). both her parents said they didn't know of the incomplete degree in sept 2020.
She was also doing a job in july 2020 for 5000 rupees but her boss never gave salary for 3 months and she left.
after engagement and her college being started things were normal, she was living in a different city - anand, I was in Surat, and her parents in ahmedabad. (At the time of our first meet i emphasised strongly I want a working life partner , she said yes to work).
after her graduation in june 2022, she went to stay with her parents for about 2 months, and my dad got hospitalised. he was diagnosed brain tuberculosis and died after 2.5 months in nov 2022.
In jan 2023, i had a hookup with a callgirl, my wife found out and i accepted she gave me one more chance. I tried my level best to gain her trust. But after 2 years in jan 2025 she wants divorcee citing above reasons.
My status now - I have completed a cybersecurity certification and started a startup, also doing brokerage from renting and sale of properties(my late father's business), My wife and her parents say this broker business is not legitmate. I make about 25k from either business every month.
My wife status - She started job in may 2023 after giving me a chance from my cheating matter, and have been a working women till now. she earns atleast 18k per month.
I had asked her to take her expenses on her temporarily, but she took as if i am asking her do it permanently.
Without telling me or my mother anything she went to her parent's house and now she is demanding divorce.