Seeking divorce

Let me start with my bad's i was totally clear from my side that i had a relationship 10 years ago and i am no way connected to anyone physically mentally or emotionally. After this, i got married and he said yes, later from the first day of my marriage, he started complaining why did your brother didn't ask me which car model do i need, as i chose tigor automatic for me, then why did you not chose the nice watch for me i don't wear these titan watches i give these watches to my submissives as gift on diwali, since i was married and that's a big thing so i didn't say anything just only crying, after 15 days he started why is my mom working why aren't you doing everything, why didn't you prepare according to meal plan, create one and make dishes for me, meri phli rasoi bhi nhi hui thi tb tk, when he was angry for some reason and i kept daal on dining table for eating , dispersed the whole bowl on the floor. He is in govt. job and i am also working from home and having the almost same salary as him, Then why didn't you provide gifts to my brother and sister, why didn't you come outside at 4 am when my sister was leaving, and after every complaint this is sure that he will not stop sleeping with me how ever i resist. I never thought an educated person will have such a bad psychology in everything, i am not allowed to talk to family and friends, he made me stop my instagram, what's app, deleted my facebook. And i am not allowed to talk to my family because when i came home after a long permission from him i didn't video called him and his mother which i do with my family when i am home, He wanted me to behave as if i have been residing at his place since ages and they are my loved ones, when they are not. My newly wedded husband has nothing to do except complaint all the time and my mother in law keeps supporting him. Also, i highlighted question, he keeps talking to girls or i should say random girls always and say that he is not sexting he is just chatting normally and keeps checking on even my mails because nothing is left except that in that phone, then after checking that much found a mail of some guy from 6 years ago and found his number and contacted him using my phone installed whats app and talked to him being me, and you know men, he the great husband flirted with that guy and got angry took me to mediator house at 9 pm and showed that chat, saying some guy is disturbing her sending bad texts i think we should do police complaint. Man, i was not in my mind what should i do now? Those people called my parents that your girl is flirting with someone after marriage she is characterless, Ans they started calling other people nearby saying let my father send me back the characterless girl later don't come to us asking please call deepak to come and take her. In this time frame i was sure that i don't want him at all. Got married on 11 march 2023 and now seeking for divorce since last one year which he is not providing me after many panchayats.