The girl's family wants that girl remain unmarriade throughtout life bcs of their gov job what should we do?

Dear Sir/Mam 9 saal se hum relationship me hai Hum dono bachpan s sath pdhe r college me aake hme lga k h sath ho skte ha, hum dono Hindu ha but Cast Same nh hai r ek hi jgh rhte hai. Now the Girl is a Govt Employee and me Also A Private Civil Engineer, aur hm dono apni life me jitna ho skta ha acha kr rhe ha. krib aaj se 4 sal phale ldki ne apne ghr me bat kri apni bdi bhan se hmare rishte k bare me to tb mnaa ho gya to hme lga ki shyd jo hum chah rhe vo shi nh to fr hum krib 2 saal tk baat nh kri ek dusre se lekin niyati ko shyd kch aur hi manjoor ha to fir hm dono me vaps s bate shuru hui Is baar maine apne bde bhai ke sath jake unke ghar pe bat kri hr trike s smjhya ki hm kya shi kr rhe, mere bhaiya ne bhi puri kosis kri smjhane ki lekin vo nh mane upar se uske ghr wale usse emotionaly blackmail krne lge to vo us raat to darr gyi but fr is baat ka koi solution nh nikla. Uske ghr bat kre hue aj 2 saal se jyada ho gya ab bhi uske ghr wale kch sunne ko raazi nh bs thret dete h vo mujhe mar denge nh t o usko mar denge agr hmne shadi kri apni mrji se. Hum dono ko hi kisi chix ka drr nhi ha but hum court marriage krna nh chah rhe kuki hm dono apne pariwar me sbse chote ha r hmare vha aj tk kisi ne nh kri...Mere Father Heart Patient ha mai unhe Hurt nh krna chah rha because vo agree ha hamri shadi ke liye. Ladki ki family me sbki shadi ho gyi vo last ha, uske Jija Didi use Dhamkate ha ki vo mar denge hme agr hmne khud s Shadi kri emotionally blackmail krte hai r ab to vo ye kah rhe ki tum shadi na kro ghar baitho kbhi usko bolte hai ki tum kisi aashram chli jao mohmaya chor do Saadhvi ban jao aur uske aaj tk ke sare paise uske ghr walo ne uske bde bhai ki shadi ghr banvane me khrch kr diye r aaj bhi usse paise mangte rhte hai aur vo kahti h k meri shadi kra do to khate ha k job chor do ghr baitho. Roj uske ghr me usse ldaai krte hai usko preshan krte hai paise mangte ha.. Bhut preshan hai hum dono hi smjh nh aa rha kya krein plase help kriye...Please koi rasta hoga plase btaiye...