Seeking advice

I am a female of 36 year old ,mother of one girl child. Married in 2011. And my child is 11 years old studying in school. And I am working as a teacher in a private school. I am facing lot of problems in my marriage life. I got married to a man from tripura , and I am from goa. Our age difference is 12 years. Ever since I got married my husband doesnt provide me with any finance. All the responsibility to look after the house hold and child needs I spend my own money. He pays the room rent only as long He stays with us in the room and suddenly moves to his native mentioning to look after his mother and doesn't bother about our needs neither of the daughter.like this He has been doing since 2012.. 1-2 years he stays with us, than goes abroad for work.... and if he feels like not to work . Comes back . For past 4 years we had been staying in rent but never he landed money to run the house. He paid the rent 6000 and all of sudden now he said he wants to go native and told me to go my mother's place and stay. He does not know when he will return...so. after 2 months only he is returned. My mother gave me a separate room upstairs to stay with my daughter. But this man is now staying in rent alone paying his bills , cooking, and paying rent. Doesnt bother about the child , his wife , her education, my emotional and physical needs. Only jus visits for 10 minutes evening and goes to his room. M staying with my daughter and rowing the boat of my marriage. My mother says have some patience and be polite to him.. but sincerely speaking my patience is lost. No support from this man , neither he talks properly, neither he helped me in any work, all A to Z I have to do. Than wats the point in this kind of relation. Will he become my support in future?