RCR case filed on June 2024 , in September 2024, now petitioner and respondent communicate by call and whatsapp

Respected Advocates, I am married on 2004. Two children minors son and daughter. We all stayed in her father's house . In 2024 I asked rental agreement as a address proof from her father to open a savings account for me..my wife refused and told me to quit from her father's house and she and our children keep stayed in her father's home. And I went my native home so separated. One day I called her to cohabit but she denied by saying "don't call me or our children and I should not do any communication with them" so she separated by not attending my calls fromm Feb 2024. Hence I filed RCR case in family court in June 2024.....On September she WhatsApped messages to me and started communication.....my questions are, 1. Is that cohabition occured during the RCR case filed?...till now no first appearance of RCR case happened? 2. Do I need to inform this earlier compulsy before first appearance of RCR case starts to my advocate about the communication of between me and wife through watsapp messages? 3. Whether I have to withdraw my filed RCR petion with the help of my advovate till now no reply from my respondent wife? 4. Any Contempt of case? Simply my question is if husband and wife compromised themselves by whatsapp or call communication after filed the RCR case by petioner..dat too not even first appearance happens? 5. Shall I wait to get the RCR degree in my favour by attending all procedures. 6. Which options are safe? Am under confusion Please guide me sir/madam