Wife left house and has major ego/attitude problems. Proud of her people and her money.
Hello Sir/Madam,
I am 27 year old man who got married to 26 year old woman in December 2023 (it has been 8 months only). We both are Software professionals. I stay with my parents, younger brother and wife in a 3bhk that I purchased.
Finance :
We both earn decent. However, her father was expired last year and she has been under multiple financial burdens. She has a younger brother and mother in her family. But they are from village area with that sort of mentality(fighting and shouting and drama and blackmail) . I have always been ambitious and hard working man. I purchased my own 3bhk in metro city and also purchased couple or two wheelers on my own. Currently repaying home loan and car loan. We are from well established financial background. All of us 4 are hard working and ambitious.
Nature :
I have always been introvert and never had any friend in school/college/office and I am okay with it. I focus only on self growth. Whereas my wife is very extroverted and out going. She is considered to have charming nature to sweet talk and get things her way. She has always been attracting friends/relatives and family members because of her sweet talking (fake) nature. However, she is very vengeful, short tempered and aggressive against her enemies. She does not hesitate to lie or fake to spoil others image. She has very HUGE EGE AND ATTITUDE PROBLEMS which has been passively agreed by her people very indirectly. But she is spoilt by good word remarks in front of her. She tells me that she has many people with her.
Emotional/Mental:
As I don't have many friends, I focus on my relationship with parents and family only. My wife was okay with it before marriage but she hates my attachment with my mother. She abuses and crises my family behind their back (to me) and infront of my family she had always been good girl. Recently, I got fed up of listening her drama, abuses, threatens for divorce/suicide over silly things. She is vey childish and kiddish by nature and can go to any extreme if things do not go as per her wish.
Career:
She has been messing up at her work place as well lately and have alot of fights at workplace regarding work loads. She does not mind lying and manipulating things at her work place for avoiding to work. She even provided fake medical certificates at work to fake her health issues and took undue advantage of being a girl. She is very proud and happy about it.
Problem:
She does not like to do any work at home. Lies and fakes being busy and let's my mother do all the work. Even avoids providing any financial support at home. Blame games and emotional drama is played all the time. This is 5th time since we got married that she left my home and stayed with her mother for weeks without any contact. She never aggress to any of her mistake and crises my parents and me for everything. Even if I try my best to plead and beg to bring her back home. She gets happy and proud that I was the one to get on my knees