Divorce after 16 years of marriage

Hi, meri shadi 2008 April me hui thi. Shuru se hi mere husband koi kaam nahi karte the jabki mujhe btaya gya tha ki wo ek delhi ki ek mnc me kaam karte hain. Shadi ke baad bol bol kar unko june 2008 me job join karwayi, wo bhi usne 1saal 6 mahine tak ki uske baad job chod di. Is beech hamare ek bahut hi pyare se bete ne janam liya. Job call centre me thi to mostly night shift hoti thi to badi mushkil se office jate the. Pura din sona raat ko office. Mann nahi lga to November 2009 me job chod di. Uske baad job nahi ki. In between hamare ek pyari si beti bhi ho gayi. Ghar ka sab kharcha mere mother and father in law karte hain. Day by day situations kharab hoti chali gayi. Badi mushkil se maine ek job join kar li. Paise ki koi problem nahi thi uske pass. But wo mujhe nahi deta tha mere apne kharche ke liye. Day by day uska torture badna shuru ho gya. Wo har cheeze ke liye mujhe blame karta hai. Kai baar mujhe mara bhi hai. Mere bacchon ki fees mere in laws dete hain. Wo bacchon ke liye ek paisa tak nahi deta. And. Meti salary itni nahi hai ki main bacchon k sara expense bars kar saku. Lagbhag 3 saal se humare beech me baat tak nahi hoti. Jab se usne mere uppar haath uthaya hai tab se maine baat karna band kar diya. Bacchon ko bhi mere khilaf bolta rehta hai. Ab wo mujhe divorce dena chahta hai. Main yeah janna chahti hu ki agar hamara divorce hota hai to mere kya rites hain. Hamari marriage ko 16 saal ho gaye hain