Divorce

I got married 3 months ago. It was an arranged marriage, initially I was not ready but due to family pressure I made my peace with it. My husband and I live in different cities. It was decided before marriage that my husband will try to take a tranfer to the city where I live. Its been 3 months I don't expect a tranfer this soon but he never comes to visit, it's me who have to travel and visit, he visited only once that too coz I kinda insisted. He never calls no msgs, basically I feel emotionally neglected. I tried to communicate this to him. I am busy with work and tired is all the excuse that he has. Now his mother is asking me to look for a job in their city and move which was not part of the discussion earlier, also on the second day of marriage my husband asks me to apply for student visa in canada as he was aware of my good ielts score. I denied as he should have discussed this before wedding so that we could have planned out fiances and I felt so sudden. I don't feel happy and I don't feel my emotional needs are being met. I tried to talk about this to my family. They said that guy is good, doesn't drink doesn't smoke and Is hard working. I should adjust. Is there any solution here ?