Mental Harrasment by in laws due to foreign education
In last year, my husband and I have decided to persue Masters education from Canada in the field of computer science. He and I was in the same college for bachleor's education and has done B.E. from well knowned college in Mumbai. In 2022 we married each other and has a grand ceremony. We both along with my father in law is in business from 2018 developing softwares. We are thinking to expand our knowledge and skills hence decided to study further in Canada. We have told them in last year and started preparing to it. At that time, my father in law agreed and doesnot said anything against our further education. Now at this time to fly for education, its our planning stage and arranging things for education, he started harassing me and my husband mentally stating that you are running away from your responsibilities. You will not come back to India. You are leaving us. Everyday he says that studying further is good, but speaks lots of totrturing sentences and indirectly insults me. Even though he didn't say no directly, but his intentions and talks seems that we are doing wrong and nothing good will happen after going to canada. He didn't stop here, even he called my parents and talked about it telling them that they will loose their business and everything and why they want to study further even if they have everything over mumbai. He forces us to leave mumbai and settle down in village. Indirectly, he justs wants us to hear his words and act according to his will. Even a single action against his will, then he creates issue with it. My parents also feels insulted because of his words and torture sentences. On the other hand, to show off my husband he is arranging and helping us to take loan for our education. He always blames us for any anything that goes wrong or against his will. He always gives negative examples of people in society and tells us that you will land up getting trouble because of your thinking and actions. People sees that he is helping in buisness and financial arrangements, but he is just showing off. Both in laws are forcing us to have child instead of education by giving excuse of age. he is proving that i am forcing my husband to leave his parents and settle in foreign land. He always says that you are not useful to us now, and indirectly tells us that he will giv entire his property to his daughter. I am confused what to do, since i am well educated and earning women, and my husband tells me to ignore everything. I listened to him, but now my father in law started interfering my parents in this and started torturing them by hs words.