RcR related

My husband left our home last year August leaving me and my children alone. Later, he filed for Rcr in October and without court's direction, he came back to our home in jan 2024. In this time from August, we attended 3 counseling and 6 medications together. When the settlement agreement was about to get signed after discussion with both side lawyers in front of mediator, his lawyer all of a sudden complained that the agreement is one sided and applied for change of mediator Change in mediator application was approved but my husband did not attend any medications further . He skipped it twice but I was present. If my husband continues to absent himself, will this case get dismissed without any relief to respondent . How should I handle this? Our problem is related to financial mishandling of my husband. He used my name in almost all loans(except housing loan), stole my seedhana jewels and even applied credit card in my name without my knowledge and due to non payment of dues placed lien on my account.He cheated my parents money also. We have been married for 15 years and for the past 3 years only, I came to know of the above issues. He always keeps his phone, emails very secretive. How should I legally protect myself from this wreck?