Overly strict parents
Hello i am a 18 year old girl
My parents are very strict
They dont let me do the following things:-
1 not to do any hairstyle or open my hair
2 not to do makeup if i want to i cant even buy any they wont give me money
3 if i want to do a job and earn money i am not allowed to and even if i do hold a job they say they will be the nominee of my bank account and wont let me spend my own money however i like
Usually i have seen parents being proud that their child wants to be independent but they are different
4 wont let me hang out with my friends
My friends are all well mannered not into drugs aor alchohol and not into clubbing but they still dont allow me to go outside in a park to meet them they always come with me to keep an
eye on me whether there is a boy in the park or am i talking to a boy or not
I am not allwed to have a male friend and if i do they say stuff like you have embarrassed us and insulted us in the society
They body shame me and say you are fat
They let my brother have a car and buy him whatever he likes and not me
I found a coaching centre for the preparation of entrance exam and say you will not go here and go somewhere i dont want to
They have ideology that girls should not be allowed to go outside with their friends, not be allowed to talk to any boy otherwise she is a dishrace to the family ,not be allowed to do any hairstyle aor makeup before marriage, and also not hold a job
They wont let me buy anything i want and wont let me hold a job or have my own bank account
I hope this gave you some insight i wanted to write more and it would have been lenghty and also i wanted to write in hindi
Can you give me a solution