I had a business loss and because of which my company was shut down, but it came with lots of debt?

I had a business loss in 2016-17 and because of which my company was shut down, but it came with lots of debt, which we (me & my partner) could pay, as we could get another loan (due to low CIBIL) and so much of debt resulted in losing house, (mortgaged & since i couldn't pay EMI, i had to sell home). Recovery agent & bank kept harassing and eventually i moved to different location and cut ties with all relatives and friends because they kept calling all of them and harassing them for our loan debt. After couple of years, I took up job to take care of family needs, (couldn't take up job in good company due to CIBIL scores & legal cases in my name). Even after 4 to 5 years, bank has kept harassment on and someway or other they find my contact number. They recently came to my work place and also reached my brothers office and kept harassing him and others in person and call. this has lead me with utmost frustration and i am not sure what to do. With whatever i earn, i can ensure, i can give good and peaceful life to my family. I don't have enough bandwidth to pay all the banks (3 NBFC). Also, if these continues, i ll loose job and all respect i have earner as a human by being good in my work. I need help from you and way out to get reed of the banks & there recovery agents.