Property sold even after getting stay order from drt

My husband had taken loan from bank, he is no more, we went to bank for insurance, but they denied that there is no life insurance, they gave me in written also, then my advocate sent them a notice, they replied advocate and also warned me through advocate that I should not dare to file any case against them.Then i had to file case in consumer forum as well as DRT as they had sent symbolic possession notice, they have become exparte in consumer forum, In DRT final hearing date has been given on 30th of july but they have sold my property. They have broken rules like: no notice have been served to guarrantor they had published our property details in newspaper and hadnt informed us before 1month now they sent auction notice after getting dtsy order they also had put property details on eauction site(I have made video) they have affixed auction notice on door of my house. I am a 52 years old widow with 2childrens of 20 abd 22years old, we dont have any earning source, my younger kid earns as he is in BPO and he is only 12th and due to financial problem he is not able to study. And money of insurance has been deducted from sanctioned amount, as seen in a account statement, they have tortured me mentally many times by doing phone directly and also through some outsiders. Pls Suggest what should we