Mental harassment
I got married in 5th Feb 2017,it was a love marriage. We use to hv few fights when his parents use to interfere... Bt we use to sort it out and managed. At that time I didn't get the reason, instead I use to blame myself that I am unable to accept/adjust. But since his parents started living with us i.e from 20th May 2018...till one week everything was fine, bt after that... All complaining from my husband started. I was working as an Interior designer (11am-8pm) and 2hr traveling, plus freelance work at home... I use to be dead tired... I tried explaining my husband that I am doin household work to my max limit. He was scared that his parents will leave.. I told him no one will go... Bt no use. He got worse each day... Every mrng he was angry that I am not getting up more early, he use to see me working at night still...every alternative dau we started fighting. I cried, with love in anger... Tried evry mode to explain him, bt nothing worked. Every passing day was becoming difficult for me... My colleagues were worried for me. Bt at home no one noticed that I am not in good condition... My husband kept on raising his bar, nw he started saying that I hv spoiled the house environment. His father go down because of me... His mom is sad because of me. He even cried when his father went down...and gave me scariest look of my life. It waa horrible for me to even breathe, every wrong thing was because of me...of I was busy in my phone, he use to scold me coz I was not listening to his mom. Even sitting at dining table for drinking lemon water was also not considered as good. I was not allowed to sleep on Sunday coz his parents will feel bad. I was not able to work properly in office too... Things were just out my hand. His mother also supported him by saying that I shud leave my job coz as a girl household work shud be my first priority...this coming from who hv been on job for 25yrs. My husband and mother in law forced me to answer that will I be cooking with this job or not...I said with this job I cant and after hearing my husband raised his flats on me... His mother came to me and said plz cheer up ur husband and took me to him and said to my husband that he shud not get angry on me again as I will do Watever she will ask me to do. I was scared...still after two daze my husband was like that I am not doin my household work. His father also did not not tried to understand the depth of the problem. Meanwhile I heard them (father in law, mother in law and my husband) talking against me. Things got worse...My husband was not trying to understand my pain he use to do Watever his parents say. Now I am pregnant,
Still they were least bothered abt my emotional need, nor even my husband, i hd to come down to my hometown coz I use to cry all day...Which I was not suppose to in starting mnths.Till now my husband didn't called/asked me abt my health.I asked him wat he is doin, he said his parents are upset coz of me and I myself went so he is not responsible