Custody

Hi. I am Luv from Philippines. I am a singlr lady. 22 years old. Filipina. I live in Phil until present. I have a boyfriend. He is an American and now residing in Philippines. He has a child from a woman he doesn't love and date before i know him here in Philippines. Now the girl finds out that i am dating this man and she turn into a psycho (not literally psycho). He got to see the man i am dating and told him what she found. The man i love texted me and was so worried. The girl threatened him that if he contiue dating me he will never let my man see or borrow the child. This child is only 2 years old. What could we do into this situation. I am so bothered. I really love this man but i am the least in his priority now. He prioritize his child of course. This girl is making the baby as a pawn to ruin my man's life. They are never married Sir, he just want to support the child and he is a very responsible man and i loved it. But how can he be happy when he lives in a life like this. I dont have any idea about custody. And i disappointed at this time. I want to make him happy. I want to help him but i dont know how. Mr. Lawyer, they are not couples nor married. They were tied only because of the child. And whenever he date someone and the girl finds out he always do the same thing that he is like in the middle and dont know who to choose but ended up choosing his child and all of this is confusing me. Please help me. Guide me to be strong because he asked me time and space because he is upset and sad about what happened. I dont have any money to pay you but i badly need help this time. Sincerely yours, Luv