• Wife creating problems for child to be with grandparents

My wife of 8 years is not allowing our child who is 5 years old to spend time with grandparents in a different city even for 4-5 days in a year.
What legal options do I have? I’m there with him at that time even if she doesn’t want to. 
I want to send a notice to allow at least 15 days a year with grandparents wherein I’ll be with him.
Asked 8 days ago in Family Law
Religion: Hindu

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Grand parents have no visitation rights 

 

ask grand parents to come to  your city wherein they can meet the grand child 

Ajay Sethi
Advocate, Mumbai
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7864 Consultations

 

Dear Client,

You have legal options to ensure your child can spend quality time with their grandparents, especially when you are present during such visits. Here’s how you can proceed:

1. Send a Legal Notice

  • Draft and send a legal notice to your wife through an advocate, requesting that the child be allowed to spend at least 15 days a year with their grandparents under your supervision.
  • Emphasize the importance of the child's relationship with grandparents and the emotional and social benefits it provides.

2. File a Petition for Visitation Rights

  • If your wife does not respond positively to the notice, you can file a petition under Section 26 of the Hindu Marriage Act or relevant laws under personal law applicable to you.
  • Seek a court order granting specific visitation rights for the child to spend time with grandparents. Courts generally prioritize the child's welfare and are likely to support arrangements that benefit the child emotionally.

3. Best Interests of the Child

  • Highlight in court that the grandparents' involvement is in the child’s best interest, providing love, support, and family bonding.
  • Ensure the court understands that you will always be present to supervise and ensure the child’s safety.

4. Attempt Mediation

  • Before pursuing legal action, consider mediation to resolve the issue amicably. Mediation may help avoid litigation and reach a mutually acceptable solution.

5. Documentation

  • Maintain records of any communication regarding this matter, such as emails or messages, to demonstrate your good faith and reasonable efforts to foster the child’s relationship with grandparents.

If you need assistance in drafting the legal notice or filing a petition, feel free to contact me.

Warm regards,
Advocate Aman Verma
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Aman Verma
Advocate, Delhi
116 Answers

Grandparents have no legal right  to custody of grand son, even temporary. They can seek only visitation rights .

Ravi Shinde
Advocate, Hyderabad
4321 Answers
42 Consultations

Your parents cannot claim visitation rights over the grandchild during the lifetime of the biological parents and there is no provision in law for that.

If she is not agreeing then you take your child forcibly and you remain with your child all along and bring back the child to home safely with you.

If the situation is intolerable you can decide to live separately away from her and file a child custody case to have full custody of your child with you.

T Kalaiselvan
Advocate, Vellore
87534 Answers
2349 Consultations

Dear Client,

In your case, the welfare of the child has to be brought into prominence while considering both the rights of the father and mother and the grandparent family. Under the Indian legal system, a father can file a petition under the Guardians and Wards Act, 1890, or approach the Family Court for visitation rights as well, citing that it is essential for a child to have a close bond with grandparents for his or her emotional and cultural growth. Now you are suggesting to accompany the child during such visits, this will make your case much stronger by showing that both the safety and comfort of the child are ensured. Before you file a court case, you can forward a legal notice to your wife, requesting her to be cooperative and suggesting a specified visitation schedule of more than 15 days of the year in the child's best interest. If this does not work out amicably, you can apply for a court order to formalize visitation rights. Always consult a family law practitioner to draft the notice and represent you effectively in court if necessary.

Hope that this helps you to solve your problem.

Anik Miu
Advocate, Bangalore
10321 Answers
121 Consultations

You can send a legal notice and then file a case for visitation rights in court

Prashant Nayak
Advocate, Mumbai
32739 Answers
209 Consultations

- Legally your wife cannot snatched your right to enjoy with your child 

- You can send a legal notice to her for the same , and if refused then file a Custody petition before the family Court. 

- As per law, if one parent is given physical custody, then periodical interaction and visitation is given to other parent.

-  However, joint custody is also given to parents, i.e. both the parents will take care of the child turn by turn keeping the child in their custody. 

Mohammed Shahzad
Advocate, Delhi
14708 Answers
224 Consultations

Legal Options to Address the Issue:

  1. Send a Legal Notice:

    • Draft a legal notice through a lawyer to your wife, requesting that the child be allowed to spend time with the grandparents for at least 15 days a year, under your supervision.
    • Emphasize the child’s emotional well-being and the benefits of maintaining relationships with grandparents.

  2. File a Petition in Family Court:

    • If the notice does not resolve the issue, you can file a petition in the Family Court seeking visitation rights for the child with grandparents.
    • Under Section 6 of the Hindu Minority and Guardianship Act, 1956, you, as the natural guardian, can request the court to pass an order for visitation and interaction with grandparents.

  3. Mediation or Counseling:

    • Request the court for mediation or counseling to resolve disputes amicably, focusing on the child’s welfare.

  4. Guardian and Wards Act, 1890:

    • If necessary, file an application under this Act to formalize visitation rights with grandparents, ensuring that the court addresses the child’s welfare as the paramount consideration.

Points to Emphasize:

  • Grandparents play a crucial role in the child’s emotional and cultural upbringing.
  • You are willing to be present during these visits to ensure the child’s safety and well-being.
  • The arrangement is in the child’s best interest, not for conflict resolution between you and your wife.

Consult a family lawyer to draft the legal notice and guide you through court proceedings if required.

For detailed, personalized advice, consider a phone consultancy. Hope you find the information helpful. You are free to contact me for further discussion. If you could spare two minutes of your time to write a review, it would be greatly appreciated and bring immense happiness to read it. Thank you. Shubham Goyal.

Shubham Goyal
Advocate, Delhi
392 Answers

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