It is all your illusion that the man loves you. Man is selfish who has merely used you. There is no future with such man  Donot waste time and move on in your life. 

1. Acceptance and Emotional Healing:

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  Acknowledge Reality: The fact that your partner proceeded with marriage despite your efforts indicates a lack of willingness on his part to prioritize your relationship. Accepting this can be the first step toward healing.
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  Give Yourself Space: It's natural to grieve, but ensure you focus on yourself. Take time to process your emotions and prioritize self-care.

2. Seek Support:

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  Talk to Someone You Trust: Share your feelings with close friends or family who can provide emotional support.
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  Professional Counseling: Consider reaching out to a therapist or counselor to help you cope with the emotional impact and rebuild your self-esteem.

3. Legal Perspective:

• Since there was no formal commitment (e.g., engagement, legal agreements), there may be limited grounds for legal action.
• If he made false promises to marry and it led to significant consequences (e.g., harm to your reputation, financial losses), you could consult a lawyer to understand if a case under Section 417 (Cheating) or other relevant laws is possible.

4. Moving Forward:

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  Focus on Your Growth: Pursue your personal and professional goals. Moving abroad presents new opportunities and a fresh start.
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  Cut Communication: Staying in contact will only prolong your pain. Establish boundaries to prevent further emotional distress.

5. Empower Yourself:

• Reflect on the relationship to understand the patterns and lessons. This will help you identify and avoid similar situations in the future.
• Surround yourself with positivity and work on building a fulfilling life independent of your past relationship.

This phase, though painful, is temporary. Focus on rediscovering your self-worth and building a future filled with opportunities. You deserve someone who is willing to stand by you without hesitation or compromise.

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Shubham Goyal

There's no commitment neither there was any physical relationship on the promise of marriage, in that case you may not be able to even take any legal action against him for cheating or breach of trust etc.

In fact it took so many years to recognise his character, thank God that you didn't get married to him otherwise there are possibilities that he would have fled you after marriage over the fear of his parents harassment.

You may have to gather courage to ignore him totally and move on instead of lamenting or yearning for him anymore.

Now you can file a cheating case against him. If you were living in with him you can also file a Domestic violence case. 

You should forget your ex boy friend and move on in life 

you had consensual sex with your boyfriend,  

you may file a case of rape against your boyfriend on the grounds that had sex with you under promise of marriage.

His situation is neither here nor there. 

If he wants sail on the two boats together then ultimately he will submerge in water.

This issue has no legal aspect to advise except asking you to come out of this relationship which does not seem to have any future.

The quicker you accept this harsh reality, sooner you will find peace with you. 

You have option of filing criminal complaint  against him under Section 69 of BNS for the  offence of sexual intercourse by employing deceitful means by making promise to marry. Punishment  for such offence imprisonment  up to ten years. It for you to decide. But the  best option is just forget it and proceed with life. Having marred he is unlikely to come back.

You can file a defamation case and false verbal contract case against him and his family, that not marrying with you. And played with your life physically and emotionally. And took advantage of your to marry or engaged with other girl when you are abroad.

Hi. As per our situations you have no other options either you to lodge the police complaint  or to leave him.  You have to think twice and move on.

The Supreme Court has expressed concerns about the trend of using criminal law against men for rape after a long consensual relationship ends. The court has said that a breakup between a consenting couple cannot be considered a crime if the relationship was consensual at the beginning

While your need for clarity and closure is valid, legally compelling someone to provide answers or explain their actions in a private relationship is difficult unless there has been a violation of law. Here are your options:

Legal Remedies:

1. Defamation Complaint:

   • If his sister made derogatory remarks about your character or reputation, you can file a defamation complaint under Section 499/500 of the Indian Penal Code (IPC). Evidence, such as recordings or witnesses, will be essential.

2. Legal Notice for Harassment:

   • If his family continues to harass you, send them a legal notice demanding they cease such behavior. If the harassment persists, file a police complaint under Section 506 IPC (Criminal Intimidation).

3. Mediation:

   • You can request a neutral mediator (through legal or informal means) to facilitate a conversation between you and him to seek the answers you need. This, however, requires voluntary participation from his side.

4. Cheating Case (Only If Misrepresentation Exists):

   • If you believe he made false promises of marriage with the intention to deceive, you could pursue legal action under Section 417 IPC (Cheating). However, this requires strong evidence of his intent to mislead you.

Practical Advice:

• Closure Without Legal Action:

  • While the legal system can address defamation, harassment, or deceit, it cannot enforce personal clarity. Often, closure comes from within, by accepting that some answers may remain unknown.

• Document the Harassment:

  • Maintain records of any hurtful or defamatory communication from his family for future use if needed.

• Focus on Healing:

  • Consider counseling to help you process this emotionally challenging situation and rebuild your confidence.

Using legal routes can bring accountability but may not always provide the emotional clarity you seek. Ensure any action you take aligns with your goals for self-respect and peace.

For personalized guidance, consider a phone consultancy. Hope you find this information helpful. If you could spare two minutes to write a review, it would be greatly appreciated. Thank you.

Shubham Goyal

The said aspect of yours stated above is an emotional perspective but in legal parlance no case is made out in such conditions 

You may not be able to take any legal action against him or his parents if he refuses to marry you.

There's no commitment neither there was any physical relationship on the promise of marriage, in that case you may not be able to even take any legal action against him for cheating or breach of trust etc.

You may consider this as another bad event in your life, forget it, and move one because law cannot sympathize you for the sentimental or emotional feelings