The best way to go for the property partition deed or gift deed that will be better for you
And jewelry given at the time of marriage will not be considered in the partition deed.
In parents property, children's financial condition does not hold any importance, whether they are earning or not.
It all depends on your mother as to how much share her son and daughter should get. By the way, it will get distributed among 3 as of now and after your mother (sorry to say) in two.