You should file for maintenance for self and children under section 125Cr.PC.so long divorce case is pending you will get maintenance and even if adultery is proved,which is not so easy to prove,then your kids will get maintenance. You can file 498a or DV case against your torture etc.

Interim maintenance may be granted to you U/s.125 Cr.PC till the matter is settled in court. If adultery is proved, you will not get maintenance. Your children will get maintenance.

if adultry is proved in court your husband will get divorce as well as you will loose right of maintenance. so fight your case strongly. however your children will get maintenance

If your husband succeeds in proving your infidelity then court will inevitably grant him divorce. Once he is granted divorce you will lose the right to claim maintenance from him, albeit your children will have the right to seek financial support from their father. The 'adult phone conversations' between you and your paramour are sufficient to prove that you had sex with your neighbour.

It is very difficult to prove adultry under indian law,more over for your lnformation i would like to mention that in recent supreme court judgement ,the court has said adultry can not be considered as cruelty for a basis of divorce

1) file complaint under Dv act against your husband . seek maintenance , right to stay in matrimonial home or alternative accommodation .

2) it is difficult to prove adultery . visit to Tripuati can be for pilgrimage too . did you share room with your lover . if you had shared room and husband has proof of your intimate moments together he will be able to prove adultery .

3) your children cannot be denied maintenance . responsibility of father to maintain children .

4) contact detective agency gather evidence of your husband affairs too .

Did he complaint to police about beatings by your husbands friends? written statement taken under pressure/threat and after beatings is of no use.Detective agency may get evidence of his affairs then you can take defence that since you objected to his affairs,he got written statement under pressure and levelled charge of adultery.

1) if you have stayed in separate room in tripuati no case of adultery is made out . you had gone with 10 other neighbours to Triupati for pilgrimage .

2) as far as telephonic conversation is concerned you have merely vented out your anger against your husband . the conversation exchanged with friend has to be gone into as to whether you have admitted having sex with that neighbour

3) the neighbour should retract that statement . lodge complaint of criminal intimidation against your husband

4) detective agency will gather evidence of your husband affairs

1) travelling by same flight does not mean you slept together . you wanted to come back as you had young kids at hoome and they were missing you .

2) well if guy wont retract his statement then you have a problem . in any case he has to depose in court what he said in staement is true .

3) well if you cant afford detective agency forget it . detective would have to give testimony as to what h e found as result of investigations .

4) you should deny that lady having telepnonic conversation was you . let your husband prove it that it is your voice

Written statement obtained through threat, fraud, coercision or using violent methods like assaulting etc will not stand as evidence in a court of law, but your paramour, by this time, should have lodged a Police complaint to prove that the written statement was obtained illegally from him,

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1) it has to be proved that it is your voice .

2) detective agency can gather evidence of your husband illicit relations with other ladies . he wont be able to access old call records

3) every govt servant is afraid of being suspended if any case is filed against him and he is put in jail for more than 48 hours .

i do hope in your reply in divorce case you have mentioned about your husband extra marital relations . you have to prove those allegations . hence need of evidence to support your case