1. she can file a RAPE case,
2. to defend yourself, you have to prove that the relationship was not perforce rather it was a mutual relationship,
3. if you are the biological father of the kid, then he can claim a share in your property,
4. to safeguard yourself, you can file a police complaint against her about extortion, blackmailing, etc
5. you can also settle the issues amicably involving your family, friends, etc.
6. If not today then tomorrow, everyone has to know, so take a step now to stop routine harassment,