1/ Your case seems really curious one as what you state is certainly not permissible in law.
2. The police can not determine to time or frequency or need to attend the police station by the accused person.
3. It is the court which imposes such condition and that too only at the time of granting bail.
3. After some time such condition is waived by the court if applied for.
4.If the court does not do so, the accused person can move to sessions or high court for waiver such condition.
5. Once the case was started there was no way the police could close the case.
6. If you gave the money then you should have make compromise so that the complainant could have withdrew the charges against your husband.
Talk to another lawyer and get better advice. You seem to have been ill-advised.