HI, I been in relationship with a girl from past 4 yeara. we been in relationship from our college days. initially we were best friends but we both know about each other very well. so we thought of marrying each other after we settle . now we both are working as Software developers from past 3 years. we never told about our relationship with girls parents. but 1 month back she told about our relationship with their parents but now they are not accepting for our marriage because we both are from different cast. they are forcing her to get marry with other guy. she is very genuine but afraid of her parents. Is there any way I can bring justice . Few points: 1. physical sexual relationship 2. No money transactions 3. I did not force her for anything Proofs I have: 1. WhatsApp chats where we discussed about our marriage. Please help me to understand how this case will proceed.
She can go along with you and you can marey each other e a court marriage.
If her parents are forcing her to marry someone else then you may file a petition in the high court for her freedom from her parents.
But she has to be ready to live with and marry you.
You can perform court marriage under law Special Marriage Act. Once this is performed nobody can do anything.
You both can get married even against her parents wishes
2) both are adults and free to marry
3) if girl refuses to marry against her parents wishes forget her and move on in life
If she is ready to marry you notwithstanding her parents' opposition then both of you can get married and then file protection petition in the High Court to seek protection from false cases by her parents and also to protect your life and liberty.
Hi, It is better both of you get married either in temple or marriage register office. Both of you are major you can marry any one of your choice.
Dear sir,
There are two options:
1. You somehow try to convince the girl's parents. Law and courts cannot direct them to change their mindet.
2. You both can marry by your own. According to law, if the boy of 21+ years and a girl of 18+ years are free to marry according to their wishes. In fact, the right to chose ones partner is a fundamental right under Constitution of India.
Best wishes.
If she has filed any FIR then you need to first take anticipatory bail in the same. later the case will proceed in trial court on merits.
Marriage is an institution in itself. If you start wrong you will end up wrong. Mediate between the family members if possible. If not possible by yourself then take help of your elders.
Considering both of you major in age (Male: 21 years or above and female: 18 years or above) and inclined to get married despite of non-inclination of either of the family members, it is advisable to go for registered marriage, by placing an application before the Police Station nearest to the area of residence of the girl stating that she is of adult age and is willing to marry you against the wish of her parents and has voluntarily decided to marry you.
This will help you to consummate your both relationship without any personal allegations on you or your family.
You can also seek police protection by applying Special Criminal Application before Hon'ble High Court of your state on the grounds of threat to your life or both of yours life due to non-consensus of either of your family members.
You take your parents to their home and negotiate the marriage arrangement with them.
If they do not agree then you can approach elders of their side to put pressure on her parents.
If they still do not agree for this proposal, you may ask the girl to walk out of their house and get her married to you under a social ceremony and get it registered before a marriage officer under Hindu marriage act.
Please always remember that the girl has to cooperate with you to get married to you after which her parents cannot restrict the adult girl from getting married to you.
Right of a major individual to marry person of his/her choice is a fundamental right which cannot be encroached by anybody irrespective of caste or religion.
I thank each and every individual . I would like to add share more details about my personality and what I am going through. Basically I am a kind of person who don’t spend much time others. I like to remain alone always. And I only talk with 2 persons. one is my mother and 2nd is my girl(I lost my father when I was 5). So, we both were dreamed about our future and all. But suddenly this happened. Now, what she is saying, if they do love marriage then theirs family will lose their dignity. But I can’t live without her. But, she is not ready to leave theirs parent. our family members also spoke with their parents, but still they are saying no. they don't know about our live in relationship. I thought it's not good revel. I been going through lot of mental tension. I know that it's her decision in the end but if same thing happens to a girl will it be the same?
You can seek help of a medical professional to cope up with your mental health. Try to move on if this relationship doesn't work out.
If the same thing happens to a girl, legally it will be the same, however if the girl wants to harass the guy she can lodge false criminal cases against. But again, that ultimately is not going to be any benefit.
Your girl friend does not want to go against her parents wishes
respect her decision and move on in life
don’t file any case against her
Hi, if the girl is does not consented for marriage then it is difficult to marry her.
You somehow have to convince the girl to get married to you as you both are fond of each other and have already decided to marry each other except for the obstacle from their parents side.
The next solution is that you people can secretly get married and get your marriage registered without anyone knowing about it and start living normally as you both are living now away from each other.
No doubt this would be a very harsh treatment or a very hard blow to their parents however this may be a temporary issue and as the passage of time, they will accept the reality and may accept you both by recognizing your marriage too.
But you may have to be very cautious in the steps that you would like to initiate now in this regard because any flaw may jeopardize the entire process and may serve a fatal blow to all your efforts.
- Legally you cannot marry with her without getting her consent , even if were in relationship with her .
- Further , the court also cannot pass an order for direction to get marry with you , without getting her consent.
- But, if she wanted to marry you , then you both can get protection legally.
A marriage is a legally recognized union of a man and a woman, which thereto raises rights and obligations between them. Both of you are major, Major person’s can marry each other without the consent and will of their parents. Registration of marriage is a mode of proof of marriage.Both of you register your marriage under Special Marriage Act.
If the girl does not want to go beyond her parents wishes then you can’t force her. A forced marriage is a violation of human rights, as well as a form of Gender Based Violence as it usually involves mental abuse, emotional blackmail and coercion from either the family or society.
Don't take tension you will be fine. You can contact me if you need more info. In the above circumstances just do as aforesaid
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Until and unless she chooses you unconditionally till then you have no right to marry her. It is she, who wants her parent's happiness and also willing to marry you with the consent of her family members not otherwise. so it will be better for both of you to either wait and try to console them or leave and go ahead in your life. Legally you cannot take any action against her or her parents except filing the criminal case of cheating and Civil case of compensation.
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1. Law does not recognise emotions.
2. If she is ready to marry you then courts will come to your rescue.
It can't be same for both the sides as in India we have more of women favoring laws and therefore it is distinct in each aspect. However, as you are going through ample of emotional trauma it is advisable for you to allow elderly intervention and seek their guidance and help to preserve dignity of your girl and your relationship. Legally until allegations are grave and in specific against you substantiated by evidence and statement of your girl as well, nothing can happen wrong to either of you.
If you are worried about her then until she keeps courage to stand for herself for her own love and you, nothing can stop her parents to do something for their own daughter's future and betterment.
I wish you good luck with this emotional sea-saw and may you both get blessings to get together and forever soon.
Dear Sir,
You may approach some common or police who may help you to solve your problem amicably.
