Hi, it is a normal problem every house hold call her parents and ask them to convince her......... i think you don't get legal solutions here and one important thing is that family relationship is very important here.
I told my wife's family that im earning 35k per month.... Now she is torturing that her brother/neighbor/relatives are all earning around 1 lakh per month.... she is not committed to any work...she is saying at my home my mother looked after all work...so i dont know how to do this and that..... Moneywise and workwise she is giving me immense pressure.... I spoke to her about both problems... she doesn't listen to me....If I insist she might file a case.. What to do ?
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Hi, it is a normal problem every house hold call her parents and ask them to convince her......... i think you don't get legal solutions here and one important thing is that family relationship is very important here.
1)well not every individual can earn Rs 1 lakh a month .just because your wife brother and neighbours are earning more there is no reason for your wife to compare you with them .
2) you should encourage her to work . give instances of your friend wives who are working . . these days it is necessary for both to earn to lead a reasonable life style .
3) dont take stress . you will land up with major health problems . be satisfied with your earnings
4) let your wife file case if she so desires . fight it on merits
Thanks Mr.Ajay. I want to lead a simple life... Spend less than what we earn and save for future... Like you said when i give her instances of my mother/sister/some other girls working hard at home , she replies me back with you earn like my brother(1 lakh ) and then instruct me.. and also she says " I can do what i know " . I can't work too hard.... These kind of arguements puts me in pressure.. I may lose job and landup in another trouble.....
Am i allowed to force my wife to do household work/ Is asking wife go to work due to financial circumstances acceptable by law ? Out of anger sometimes i scold my wife / beat her though its not planned/intentional .. Is it offence ? Can she book me in domestic violence ?
1) you cant force your wife to do household work .
2)you cant force your wife to work .
3) you cant assault your wife physically . she can file case under Dv act against you
1. You cannot force our wife to do any kind of household work. Forcing wife to perform work within the household amounts to domestic violence.
2. You may ask but not force her.
3. If you assault your wife even though due to a grave and sudden provocation she can prosecute you under criminal law in addition to filing a DV case against you.
Don't stress yourself. Request your wife to attend with you a session before a marriage counsellor. If better sense does not prevail on her even after counseling then you may apply for divorce.
In worst case ,If she files complaint against me under domestic violence, how long will i get jail term........
In Dv case if your wife files complaint against you then you wont go to jail . magistrate will pass protection order in favour of your wife and grant her other reliefs sought by her
I have seen ,in few cases, a husband/his family been sent to jail for harassing wife... Thatswhy i asked that question... What happens if the husband believes that wife doesn't deserve any maintenance but feels ok for his kid..?
you have to comply with court orders . if wife is not working she is entitled to maintenance . you will have to pay maintenance for wife and your child too
As per law, If wife is post-graduate and not working , will she be entittled to maintenance? If wife is working,will she be qualify for maintenance ?
Thats fine sir...Somehow, If i get her signed in what valuables shared between two parties, will it stand in the court when she goes for divorce ? Its not about getting her valuables nor loosing our valuables, its about to say the court that we have surrendered all her belongins when she lies.
maintenence has nothing to do with qualification,
you can present alist of articles shared between the parties
1) if wife is working she may not get maintenance . is she is highly qualified and not working you can draw attention of the court to said fact that she can easily work and maintain herself
2) if your wife signs any documents mentioning list of valuables lying in her possession it would be binding upon her .
thank you Mr.Ajay... I assume based on your reply that I do not to give any maintenance to my wife....Becos she has done MBA and used to work...Not now...though....This is 100% sure....Or maintenance may be nominal..... How about my child maintenace ?
you have to pay child maintenance . your wife wont be entitled to maintenance if she ahs been working in past and is highly qualified
Its clear now. Many thanks to Ajay .