Dear Querist
my opinion on your queries are as under:
1.is it possible that without going to Noida somehow case can be cancelled in local police station(Mumbai) .considering the fact that now even girls family want to withdraw the case?
Opinion: Immediately file a quashing petition before Allahabad High Court against this FIR and record the statement of your wife before high court, the high court first pass an order for stay on arrest and then issue the notice to Police for their reply of the same.
2.i read about “Zero fir” so can the fir be transferred to Mumbai now under “Zero Fir”?
Opinion: if there is any Zero FIR then only the transfer is possible otherwise not.
3.Police person told that he filled imposed 366 on me.so without taking girls statement how he can file case under 366{Girl is 21 years old }.
Opinion: file the quashing petition is best option and the FIR will be quashed.
4.Is it really required to be present in same state where the case is filled,even though if there is security threat?
Opinion: No need to worry, your personal Presence is not required, if required by the court then court also may direct the police to protect you and your family and appear before the Court.
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