1. Yes, they are more or less same .
2. Surelty must in terms of a money and other assets which is to be furnished by some localite. You can not deposit the assets directly in court. You would require a local person.
3. Bond is the deed of guarantee by way of depositing money or money's worth through a person who is called a surety.
4.Yes. Bond is receipt to show that guarantee is furnished by the surety.
5. Mostly local sureties are licensed one and if personal surety is allowed then any relative of the accused can pose as a surety or guarantee.
6. Your current lawyer is extracting money from you. The cost of surety or guarantee is not more than 50% from the surety amount. in your case the cost should not be more than Rs.15,000/-.
7. A lawyer is entitled to only his professional fees. The fees made under different heads is a ploy to dupe you. As I told you earlier the lawyer apart from his professional fees requires surety amount not more than 50% . The other charge is simply bogus or sham.
8. The surety report is receipt of Bond. Its cost is not more than few hundred of rupees. Police may take some bribe but again it is not more a thousand rupees. Those are incidental costs and generally included in the fees of the lawyer only.
9. Well, only after furnishing Bind the Karm can get out of the jail. Calculate the fees as I have mentioned above.
10.This query is not clear to me. If any of you is supposed to stand as guarantor or surety then you can do so on the formality as asked but in that case surety amount should be much less.
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