I am facing mental torture from the day of marriage from my in laws. My mother in law and sister in law couldnt accept our marriage they are continuously causing problem from the day of marriage and after I got pregnant my husband also started supporting them. They started crying from my haldi rasam. Then when my husband was with me in the marriage night they started shouting and creating scenes. Then in airport when I was travelling towards shasural I faced their cruelity again. Reaching home it increased. No rasam to welcome the bride. No reception was given . Honeymoon to Goa which my husband promised was postproned. Even door was not closed physical relationship was denied still his sisters marriage. Because she will feel bad. It was not mentioned before marriage. My family members had to request after that door was closed. No rasam was performed. Then problem increased. My husband didnt have permission to take me out. And if I asked he would get angry find faults in me. Physically he started saying me bad things. Forced me to wake up early and start doing household work. I didnt had permission to spend alone time. I tried to cheer myself chatting with friends, family, listening music, reading and sometimes taking brake alone in my room. They brought cruel aligation that I am mad or talking to some other men . While I found my husband doing something in Pune with his employee. He was taking revenge. I became pregnant it added fuel to fire. I wanted to go and live with my sister I was not allowed and humiliated. A positive person like me started loosing myself everyday every moment. All my dreams shattered. I tried to drink harpic. To which my husband says go and die outside my house. He used slangs like chutiya for all Bengalis and humiliated me since I am from Bengali family. When I called him he behaved so bad I lost the courage to call him. Then he took me for abortion I couldnot keep the baby because his mother and sister doesnt wants. I broke. Doctor refused to abort. The problem increased I and my family was ill treated to maximum. My husband forced me to leave his home with my mother. And never came to visit me from January. Putting stress on me everyday. When I pointed out his mistakes he blocked me in whatsapp, facebook and phone too. I have text messages ,and some recordings as evidence. But all I dont have.
1) file DV case against husband , mother in law , sister in law seek protection order, maintenance, alternative accommodation and compensation for mental torture undergone by you
2) also file for divorce on grounds of mental cruelty
3) seek interim maintenance and alimony from husband
You can file Divorce against him. You can file domestic voilence Complaint and 498A FIR against them. You can claim maintenance under 125 crpc and domestic voilence Act. You can also claim maintenance before family court
Hello,
File a case under 498a of IPC along with other provisions which is relevant in your case. Also file a case under dv act and a maintenance case under section 125 Cr.P.C.
However I belong to that area so you can let me know if you need further help.
Hope this helps.
Regards
Dear Madam,
It is better to file Domestic Violence case against your husband and in laws in Family court. Don't worry you will get a relief: Contact local advocate and get service. The DV case proforma prayer is as follows:
PRAYER
HENCE THE APPLICANT HUMBLY PRAYS
Approach the women cell of the Police in your city to lodge a FIR against your husband and in laws.
Additionally, institute a complaint against your husband and in laws under the Domestic violence Act.
If you are not self dependent, seek maintenace from your husband.
Your query is silent on the fact what do you want from your husband ? Do you want to go back?
If you want to go back then File Section 9 RCR.
Take step against your husband under domestic violence Act.
1) You can file Domestic Violence case against whole family and If you want divorce or maintenance that also too you can do it.
Dear Client,
Better file criminal complain agasint them for domestic violence and dowry demand. Things may not solve but they will get the lesson and incarceration.
Firstly file a police complaint against husband and his family for.domestic violence , cruelty abuse , threatening forcefully taking you for abortion.
Further seek maintenance from husband and also file a divorce on ground of cruelty. There is no use to live with such family and person.
Dear Ma'am,
- You can file Domestic Violence case under 498 a against all the party you have mentioned above
- Incase seeking divorce, file the petition u/s 13 ia (has, after the solemnization of the marriage, treated the petitioner with cruelty)
- U/s 125, Maintenance and alimony can be claimed.
- In case you seek settlement, can go for restitution of conjugal Rights U/s 9 and seek to arrange another house to stay with security.
Regards
Vivek Arya
1. I do not thin this marriage is going to work and if that is so and for the sake of your self ride and dignity it is advisable that you part your ways peacefully.
2. So ask for payment of permanent alimony of your choice so in lieu thereof you can give him mutual divorce .
3. If he does not agree then you can file case u/s 498A IPC for the tortures done to you .
4. You can also file case for maintenance under PWDV Act which would be around 25% of his income.
So act accordingly and feel free to contact.
You need to hire a good lawyer and file a case of domestic violence and 125, 498a wont help as your husband and others wont get arrested.
1. It seems that you have not gelled well in yiour marriage.
2. You shall have to decide whether you shall continue to have this matrimonial relationship with your nhusband or terminate it.
3. If you decide to terminat the relationship, immediately lodge a police complaint of dowry harassment u/s498A of IPC and also file a DV case against him and his family members.
4. Also file a maintenance case against him u/s125 of Cr.P.C.
5. Thereafter, you can negotiate with him for jointly filing a mutual consent divorce petition on agreed terms which will be disposed of within 6 & 1/2 months from the date of its filing.
1. Yours is a fit case to apply for dissolution of marriage on the ground of cruelty. So you are free to file a petition in this regard.
2. Your husband can contest the petition on service of summons. So preserve all your social media evidence.
3. You are also free to file a DV case under Section 12 of DV Act to seek maintenance for yourself and your child. You can also claim monetary compensation from him for all the acts of domestic violence.
You can avail the legal help since the laws are favoring the victim women like you.
You can file a DV case against him, his parents and sister for all the tortures an cruelties they meted out to you and seek the relief of protection, residence, interim maintenance and compensation for the cruelties done to you.
You can lodge a criminal complaint agaisnt them under section 498a IPC before the local police and get them punished for their willful and intentional wrong acts of cruelty against you.
If the situation is intolerable then you may even plan to file a divorce case on the grounds of cruelty
Now when I decided to launch a case and I told my husband I want to launch a case. He is ready to come and meet me but according to them I must say my mother in law I have done mistakes. I think they want to collect this as proof against me. What should I do????
If you think your oral admission of guilt may save this marriage then you can do this. But do this at their home and after they allow you to lead a normal marital life with your husband.
I havent done any mistakes . I think they want to record this and use it as a proof against me. So If I accept I have done mistake. My husband will come to meet me within 15days. But I dont believe them. After what they have done to me.
You should deny and go ahead with the complaint.
See file a police complaint and after that when police call for counselling that would be better.
don’t give any thing in writing that you have committed mistakes
once you you admit that you have made mistakes it would go against you
There is no guarantee that husband will come to you after 15 days
they musty have consulted lawyer and gathering evidence against you
Thats the biggest mistake you have committed by informing, you need a good lawyer to guide you at every step you take with pros and cons reasonings
If you want to be with him then compromise. If not then don't go to meet him
If you do not want apologise yourself before your mother in law you can refuse to accept the offer.
You can exercise abundant caution while the similar things appear.
As suggested earlier you may exercise abundant caution while dealing with them.
You dont become a scapegoat to fulfill their ambitions.
Don`t agree of anything neither threat them for any false cases but say only previous acts of violence and continuous demand of dowry for taking you home. File FIR, it can be withdrawn later.
1. If you think that you have done no mistake then ask your husband what mistake you have done as per them and why does he want him to admit his mistake which you have not done before his mother?
2. Audio record this conversation in your telephone.
3. Thereafter visit his place and state before your mother in law that you feel sorry if she is hurt.
4.Your audio recording the conversation is very important for using in future.
1. If you do not believe your husband, then ring him and record the conversations after asking the questions as suggested in myb earlier post.
2.After that go to his house with him and state what has been suggested in my earlier post to your mother in law.
3. Do not state anything over phone to your mother in law.
My family asked me to appologize. I consulted lawyer in kolkata he said I can appologize but even after appologizing any fault . My mother in law said I didnt appologize and my husband behaved bad with my mother and he had blocked me over phone long ago. I couldnt have food couldnt sleep for nights. Caused misscarriage suddenly. I was in life risk my husband didnt even messaged me to ask about me or the baby. Now each lawyer I am meeting is saying different. Some says I can get divorce before 1yr with special permission. Some says dont go for 498. Cause you are not tortured physically. Mental torture cant be strong ground. Police will do nothing etc etc. Just claim money. I want a good lawyer in WestBengal who can fight for my rights. In Chuchura court. Who will not mislead me. Plz help me. I got lots of help from you people. But I want to meet a good lawyer.
Include physical violence too in FIR, dowry demanf etc.and on the ground of eternal hardship, file divorce. No wait for a year.
There can be remedies sought at best interest of you, with help of this forum, i.e., kaanoon.com, seek my details from them, if they feel right, they shall connect you to me.
1) number of lawyers on this website from Kolkata like Mr Ganguly or Mr Barman
2) contact any of them
3) you can file case against husband under section 498 A only if you are victim of dowry harassment
Mam there are number of good lawyers from west bengal on website contact them and move.legally against your husband, file police complaint and seek justice.
You can file all the above cases and also settle with him for alimony
If you want to engage the services of a good lawyer , you ,may look for on from from this forum too, ther are plenty of lawyers ion this forum who hail and practice in Kolkata or you may have to enquire from your sources about a good lawyer and approach one.
1. You shall have to choose your lawyer based oin your judgement.
2. It is not a fact that police does not act based on complaint lodged alleging mental cruelty..