1. The harassment will continue unless and until bail is granted. The moment it is granted the police will no longer be able to lay its hands on you. So at this stage the only suggestion is to lay emphasis on securing bail.
2. If bail is refused by the lower court then you can move to the higher court. Exhaust all the legal options available to get bail.
3. The complaint has already been given by this lady in pursuance of which the process has been set in motion. You have the right to avail bail to evade your arrest. Nobody can put you in jail if you have secured bail.