1. As explained in my earlier post, in worst case, he will get a Judgement directing you to join him at Gwalior and in case you refuse to comply with the Order/direction, he can file divorce suit after one year of the date of the RCR Judgement and in that case it will be easy for him to get the decree of divorce.
2. Mother is considered as the natural guardian till 5 years age of her child and thereafter you can file a child custody case against him to get absolute custody of your child.
3. However, the RCR case and the consequential divorce suit might take 4 to 6 years to be disposed off which you should keep in mind. So, he shall have to wait till then for remarriage.
4. You can negotiate for MCD on agreed terms duly compensating your losses, which will be disposed of with in 6 & 1/2 months from the date of its filing.