• Mutual divorce from a characterless wife filed at Hyderabad RangaReddy Court

I am a software engineer got married on Jun 3 2017 and with in 4 months i came to know my wife illegal multiple affairs with her cousin brother , boy friend and her school principal. During those 4 months being doubted on her behaviour like frequent lies, deletes call conversations, late night watsapp chats i hacked her mobile and recorded all her dirty conversations with her bf, cousin brother and school principal. 
1) Her family cheated me they told lies to my family that her father died because of heart attack. But in real her father died due to HIV and her mother is also having HIV. 
2)On hearing call conversations with her cousin brother I almost got heart attack. She has been in love with him from the last 4 years and that guy said in the call that he used her 500 to 600 times and his brother in law is using you now. I immediately called my cousin brother who is advocate he suggested me to caught them red handedly with video proofs. He already came two times to my flat. So this time he is coming again so i planned with spy cameras installed in every room and immediately went to police station to show this to police. But my bad they switched off the light and were doing. Next day i sent them to movie then i called my brother he sat in the cupboard with infrared cam while they were doing he suddenly recorded the video. But since he was not feeling comfortable in cupboard unable to capture the video properly only images dark came. I immediately entered the flat called police they came and took the statement from both of them. She admitted her mistake and agreed for mutual divorce. I asked SI to file FIR on him but he said that their signed statement is enough. So i didn't file FIR. She requested me not to tell this to their grand parents as she agreed for mutual divorce i said ok and i didn't tell to any one. Next day with these proofs we went to the court Lawyer convinced judge to file the divorce immediately.Since it is 5 months only, judge didn't agree initially. But lawyer tried again she agreed her mistake in front of judge and finally judge agreed and we got the final judgement date which wiil be on may 28.
Now the things got changed she went to her place village and told their family differently like i am a drunk yard person, i preplanned and booked her with his cousin brother threatened her that's y she had to file mutual divorce. Now their grand parents are not listening to my words even i told them i have proofs they are saying those are false proofs they won't believe. They are saying they are not ready to give divorce they are going to send back her to me or else i should pay them 50L rs. 
My question here is if she doesn't comes on May 28 will i get divorce? My brother said he is looking for a law in favour of me other wise i will have to wait for 6 more months to file divorce. He is suggesting to wait till may 28 then file a criminal case on them. Their family are also getting ready to file a complaint on me. Please help me.
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Hi, In the Mutual Consent divorce, both of them will agree for the divorce then only mutual consent divorce is valid one, suppose if she not attend the court on May 28 then court will give one or two opportunity and then the petition will be dismissed.

2. It is my advice to you file a petition for divorce on the ground that she has voluntarily having sex with multiple person and if you able to prove your case then you will get the divorce.

3. Also lodge police complaint against all of them who had sex with your wife.

Pradeep Bharathipura
Advocate, Bangalore
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1) if wife refuses to agree for divorce by mutual consent and withdraws her consent divorce petition would be dismissed

2) you can file for divorce on grounds of mental cruelty and adultery

3) make her lover co respondent

4) also file police complaint against her lover under section 497 of IPC for adultery

Ajay Sethi
Advocate, Mumbai
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ask in brief.

Yogendra Singh Rajawat
Advocate, Jaipur
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Dear Client,

Let them file as much case. Court must have recorded in the admission order, the reason to postponed the one year period of marriage for mutual divorce.

U have enough proves of her adultery, non of her case made out. Also, on the basis of her adulterous character, she cannot claim anything from u ( maintenance,alimony, etc)

Just keep those proves intact and safe.

Yogendra Singh Rajawat
Advocate, Jaipur
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Dear,

You have lot's of evidence. And you know the all the lover's also.

Then file a police complaint.

And wait for the 28th.

They have nothing to prove.

Allow them to sue on you first,your case is strong.

Pull every lover in this case also.

Tarun Agarwal
Advocate, Jaipur
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You said that your wife has admitted before the court that she has done mistake then she cannot retract from her statement which was recorded by the court. According to Section  17 of the Indian Evidence Act, that statement is an admission and it is relevant evidence. If your wife tries to retract from the statement which was recorded by the court then she shall be prosecuted by the court for the offence which she committed under section 182/193 of the Indian Penal Code. When your wife  retracted you should immediately file a complaint before the court under Section 340 of the code of criminal procedure for initiation of proceeding against her for the offence punishable under section 182/193 of the Indian Penal Code

Shivendra Pratap Singh
Advocate, Lucknow
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Hi

1) Since your marriage was solemnized in June 2017, as per law, judge must have waited for completion of mandatory cooling off period and announced the next date as May 28.

2) Now that the wife is withdrawing from her stand of mutual divorce, it is better to file the case against the adulterer under section 497 IPC immediately and let the police arrest the cousin.

3) Since you have the statements of both the cousin and your wife recorded before the police and since you also have the Call and video recordings, these are sufficient enough for you to pursue the case under 497 IPC

4) The fact that your complaint has been converted to FIR by the police is a sufficient proof for you to convince your wife's grand parents that you were the victim in this marital relationship.

5) Also you filing adultery case will protect you from any false cases that are being foisted on you.

6) Also if you can record the conversation where in there is a demand of 50 Lakhs being made, it will further help you in all court proceedings.

Hope this information is useful.

Rajgopalan Sripathi
Advocate, Hyderabad
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If she doesnot come on 28 may there shall be no divorce.

As soon as divorce is rejected on mutual ground file for divorce on ground of Adultry and pray before court to wave time as extraordinary circumstances if judge donot allow file.before hon'ble high court writ petition for direction for family court for your divorce petition the court shall accept it.

Also clear it in her mind and her brother if she doesnot agree than your going to file FIR on adultry and divorce on same. She will agree most as there statement are recorded and that can be used for divorce .

Shubham Jhajharia
Advocate, Ahmedabad
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Also donot worry there statments are recorded before police, judge on admitting divorce petition you have proof to the effect even if they file false case it won't sustain .

Shubham Jhajharia
Advocate, Ahmedabad
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2. If you have filed suit for mutual divorce then wait till the next scheduled date or dates fixed thereafter.

2. If ultimately she doesn't come then the MCD will be dismissed.

3. In that event you can file contested suit for divorce on the ground of her adultery. Considering the volumes of proof you have there shouldn't be any difficulty to get divorce.

Good luck.

Devajyoti Barman
Advocate, Kolkata
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497. Adultery —

Whoever has sexual intercourse with a person who is and whom he knows or has reason to believe to be the wife of another man, without the consent or connivance of that man, such sexual intercourse not amounting to the offence of rape, is guilty of the offence of adultery, and shall be punished with imprisonment of either description for a term which may extend to five years, or with fine, or with both. In such case the wife shall not be punishable as an abettor.

Adultery is also one of the valid grounds for divorce in India under Section 13(1)(i) of the Hindu Marriage Act, 1955 which reads as under:

13 Divorce —

(1) Any marriage solemnised, whether before or after the commencement of this Act, may, on a petition presented by either the husband or the wife, be dissolved by a decree of divorce on the ground that the other party;

(i) has, after the solemnisation of the marriage, had voluntary sexual intercourse with any person other than his or her spouse;

With the legal provisions out of the way, allow me to explain as to how exactly the concept of adultery is understood as a ground for obtaining divorce before Indian Courts.

Now adultery is understood to mean a willing sexual intercourse between a husband or wife with one of the opposite sex, while a marriage subsists. Even a sexual intercourse between those persons falling short of a complete penetration may also constitute it adultery. It is also immaterial whether the marriage itself had been consummated by the husband and wife or not.

A voluntary sexual intercourse by a party to the marriage with any person other than his or her spouse must be after solemnization of marriage between them, which means, that during subsistence of a marriage. For example, if in-spite of the fact that the wife had delivered a fully matured child within six months of her marriage with her husband, as a result of her illicit relationship with someone else prior to her marriage, it would not fall within the ambit of adultery. In this case, the husband would have no case for dissolution of his marriage with his wife on the ground of adultery.

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UNDERSTANDING ADULTERY – GROUNDS FOR DIVORCE IN INDIA

In a survey conducted by Ashley Madison, a global dating website, it was revealed that 76% of Indian women and 61% of Indian men don’t think that infidelity is a sin or immoral. People may not find infidelity a sin or immoral, but I would like to remind you that adultery is illegal as per Section 497 of the Indian Penal Code, 1860 which reads as under:

497. Adultery —

Whoever has sexual intercourse with a person who is and whom he knows or has reason to believe to be the wife of another man, without the consent or connivance of that man, such sexual intercourse not amounting to the offence of rape, is guilty of the offence of adultery, and shall be punished with imprisonment of either description for a term which may extend to five years, or with fine, or with both. In such case the wife shall not be punishable as an abettor.

Adultery is also one of the valid grounds for divorce in India under Section 13(1)(i) of the Hindu Marriage Act, 1955 which reads as under:

13 Divorce —

(1) Any marriage solemnised, whether before or after the commencement of this Act, may, on a petition presented by either the husband or the wife, be dissolved by a decree of divorce on the ground that the other party;

(i) has, after the solemnisation of the marriage, had voluntary sexual intercourse with any person other than his or her spouse;

With the legal provisions out of the way, allow me to explain as to how exactly the concept of adultery is understood as a ground for obtaining divorce before Indian Courts.

Now adultery is understood to mean a willing sexual intercourse between a husband or wife with one of the opposite sex, while a marriage subsists. Even a sexual intercourse between those persons falling short of a complete penetration may also constitute it adultery. It is also immaterial whether the marriage itself had been consummated by the husband and wife or not.

A voluntary sexual intercourse by a party to the marriage with any person other than his or her spouse must be after solemnization of marriage between them, which means, that during subsistence of a marriage. For example, if in-spite of the fact that the wife had delivered a fully matured child within six months of her marriage with her husband, as a result of her illicit relationship with someone else prior to her marriage, it would not fall within the ambit of adultery. In this case, the husband would have no case for dissolution of his marriage with his wife on the ground of adultery.

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It is also to be remembered that there has to be actual sexual intercourse with someone else during an existing marriage for it to be constituted as adultery. For example, in case a wife had written some letters and had shown some gestures of love before marriage to another person, that cannot be made the basis of divorce after marriage on the ground of adultery.

The important thing to understand is that the act of sexual intercourse must be voluntary, but if it is involuntary, for example rape, then there can be no adultery. Adultery is a ground for divorce, rape is not. There is a fundamental difference between the two; adultery is with consent, while rape is without consent.

Now prior to an amendment in the Hindu Marriage Act in 1976, the expression “living in adultery” was used in Section 13(1)(i) which meant a continuous course of adulterous life as distinguished from one or two lapses from virtue. Till 1976 the law was that if a spouse was “living in adultery”, the other side could claim divorce, but now the law is that if a spouse after the solemnization of the marriage indulges in voluntary sexual intercourse with a person other than his or her spouse, he or she as the case may be would be entitled to get divorce, meaning that even one act of extra marital sex would be enough to grant divorce to the other spouse.

The important thing is that the burden of proving a serious misconduct like adultery lies heavily on the party asserting it. In cases where the allegations consist of a spouse living a life of adultery, and it is not confined to adultery with any specified individual or individuals, then it that case, direct evidence should be made available to the Court. That the evidence must be clear and convincing so as to lead to a clear conclusion that the alleged offence of adultery had been committed, beyond possibility of a reasonable doubt.

The evidence of adultery should be pretty clear and conclusive or else the divorce proceedings may boomerang. For example, in a case where false allegations that the wife had sexual intercourse with a person other than the husband, is a serious allegation against the wife and would show the cruel conduct of the husband entitling the wife to seek divorce from him. Also, baseless allegations made against the wife with respect to her character and mere allegations that the wife had committed adultery without naming the person with whom she allegedly had a sexual relationship on the pretext that he does not know that person, would be a very weak case and may not not take him anywhere in his divorce case.

There is a fundamental difference between committing adultery and intention to commit adultery. Mere intention to commit adultery is not an offence under the Indian laws, and therefore the intention itself is not a proof of adultery and hence not a valid ground for divorce.

Again, the charge of extra-marital connection is a serious charge and casts some serious aspersion on the character of the other spouse, hence the other spouse must get an opportunity to meet the charge, therefore the petition for divorce must state specific act of illicit sexual intercourse, the name, occupation and place of residence of the other person involved in the adulterous relationship.

Since we now have a basic understanding of adultery as a ground for divorce in India, I’ll conclude by stating that, adultery is, as a general rule, proved by presumptive proof based upon;

(a) circumstantial evidence;

(b) evidence of non-access and the birth of children;

(c) contracting venereal diseases;

(d) by evidence of visits to house of ill-repute;

(e) decrees and admissions made in previous proceedings; and

(f) confessions and admissions of the parties which should be generally corroborated though in exceptional circumstances, even if uncorroborated may be acted upon.

Therefore, it is important to understand that mere bald allegations by a spouse that his/her partner was having adulterous relationship with his/her lover after marriage, in absence of any cogent evidence, would not be sufficient to grant divorce.

Hemadri Chandrakanth
Advocate, Vijayawada
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If she comes and revoke her consent then court will not pass decree. But if she doesn't come court can pass decree or adjourn the hearing for her presence.

Prashant Nayak
Advocate, Mumbai
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First of all it is not possible to file a mutual consent divorce with in one year from the date of marriage and also the period of separation should be one year or more for filing divorce on the grounds of mutual consent.

Hence I still dont understand that how could the court allow this petition and whether it is legally valid or tenable in law.

Whether she comes before court on 28 May or not, it would have to be seen if the court passes any judgment dissolving the marriage on the grounds of mutual consent for the marriage which is less than one year old.

You may confirm that if it is an annulment petition or divorce petition.

You may wait and watch the developments, do not pay them any money, you can very well pursue the adultery cse through police on the basis of the evidence available with the police.

T Kalaiselvan
Advocate, Vellore
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2317 Consultations

My strong evidence is Call recordings with her Cousin Brother, BoyFriend and uncleared Video.

The call recordings are not admissible as primary evidence before court and the unclear video footings cannot prove your case.

You may look for any other substantial or concrete evidence

T Kalaiselvan
Advocate, Vellore
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2317 Consultations

Dear Querist

If she is not ready for the mutual divorce then you will not get the divorce on 28th of May 2018, wait till that day and if she is not ready for mutual divorce then file a contested divorce against her based on cruelty Under Section 13(1)(ia) of Hindu Marriage Act-1955 before the Family Court.

FIR cannot be registered against them before police for the illegal relationship as there is an offence of Adultery Under Section 497 of IPC committed by her Lover which is non-cognizable offence and only NCR can be registered by the Police, even police cannot arrest him or start the investigation without the Court's order.

She may file a criminal case of domestic violence against you and your other family members before the magistrate court in her area and claim protection, right to residence, monetary relief, child custody if any, and compensation under section 12, 18,19,20,21 & 22 of the Protection of Women From Domestic Violence Act-2005.

Even she may file a maintenance case against you before the family court of her native place and claim maintenance which can be 1/3 of your income if she is not able to maintain herself.

if you proved before the Court that she is residing in Adultery or left your company without any sufficient reason and cause and left your company with her own then the court may reject her maintenance petition.

Feel Free to Call

Nadeem Qureshi
Advocate, New Delhi
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If she doesn't come to Court, you will not get Divorce. However it will be way longer than 28th May that you might have to wait as an MCD petition can be kept pending for upto 18 months. If you withdraw your consent prior to that, it will be your bad.

You could have also filed for nullifying the marriage on the ground of fraud/ misrepresentation but since you agreed and filed for MCD, that may not be possible now. So you will have to wait for completion of 18 months before you can file.

If there was some compliance in the consent Terms which you have carried out, you can try and convince the Judge to pass the Divorce but it may be challenged.

Radhika Mehta
Advocate, Mumbai
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Hello,

If she does not come on May 28 then the court will not proceed to give divorce.

You can definitely file a case on them and you have a strong case to file a case for annulment of the marriage.

If they file a case against you then immediately approach the HC for getting such vexatious complaints quashed.

regards

Anilesh Tewari
Advocate, New Delhi
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377 Consultations

You do have strong evidences.

All such electronic evidences will be filed alongwith an affidavit under section 65B of the Indian Evidence Act.

regards

Anilesh Tewari
Advocate, New Delhi
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