Hello,
Please tell as to what action you want to take?
Divorce can only be taken after one year of the marriage
You may file a case of harassment against the husband and his family if you want.
Regards
When husband got abroad work opportunity, took me there with dependent visa and after 10 days he asked to live separate and sent me back to India in next 5 days. Now he says he want one year to figure out and settle down and divorce to be applied after one year.
Hello,
Please tell as to what action you want to take?
Divorce can only be taken after one year of the marriage
You may file a case of harassment against the husband and his family if you want.
Regards
1.Well, its not clear what is your prerogative when your husband seeks divorce from you. If you are also willing to dissolve the marriage then go for mutual divorce after talking permanent alimony.
2. If you don't wish to give him divorce and feel cheated and abandoned by his weird act then don't agree for mutual divorce and fiel a case under section 498A ipc.
3. That apart file case under Pwdv act also claiming monthly maintenance from him. The amount of maintenance wouldn't be less than 1/3-1/5 of his present income.
So act accordingly.
You need to file Restoration of conjugal rights under section 9 of Hindu Marriage Act immediately Hindi family court citing the reason that your husband has send you back from the overseas without any valid reason he has to respond on the notice Restoration of conjugal rights and you can file maintenance case as well in case you face any problem you can go to local police station and file a case of harassment and 498 a under IPC just wait when he files divorce petition and then take the actions accordingly .
File petition for RCR in India and seek maintenance from husband
2) if husband files for divorce contest divorce proceedings
3) contested divorce proceedings take 5 years to be disposed of
4) contact a local lawyer
In any case, divorce is permissible only after your marriage gets one year old.
It is advisable that you file a petition for restitution of conjugal rights since you have been deserted and abandoned by your husband without any just and sufficient cause.
Also, seek maintenance from him.
So what you want to do basically.?? You want divorce stay with him??
See judicial separation is on grounds same as divorce and has to be contested in court.under hindu marriage act section 10 the judicial separation is mentioned, under this court gives a separation decree though divorce can be contested after the decree.
10. Judicial separation.- (1) Either party to a marriage, whether solemnized
before or after the commencement of this Act, may present a petition praying for a
decree for judicial separation on any of the grounds specified in sub-section (1) of
Section 13, and in the case of a wife also on any of the grounds might have been
presented.
(2) Where a decree for judicial separation has been passed, it shall no longer be
obligatory for the petitioner to cohabit with the respondent, but the court may, on
the application by petition of either party and on being satisfied of the truth of the
statement made in such petition, rescind the decree if it considers it just and
reasonable to do so
if you donot want seperation than you send a restitution of conjugal rights notice to your husband if doesnot respond apply under section 9 for restitution. You can also seek matrimonial counselling with the help of court.
kindly tell your query precisely i will answer accordingly or you can call for further assistance.
1. It is important to know as to what do you want now/
2.Do you agree to give him divorce or refuse it.
2. If yes, then jointly file a mutual consent divorce petition on agreed terms which will be decided within 6 & 1/2 months from the date of its filing.
3. If you do not want to give him divorce, lodge police complaint of dowry harassment u/s498A of IPC starting from India to his place of working abroad, file DV case and also file an application under section 125 of cr.P.C. seeking maintenance from him.
It fully depend upon you, Whether you to want to continue with him or separated.
If you want to continue with him , then you should file a case against him for the Restitution of Conjugal Rights under section 9 of Hindu Marriage Act.Court will summon him for the same .
Otherwise, if your husband not cooperate with you in any way, then you have number of tools to teach him lesson.
You can lodge a complain against him or his associates , who is creating problems in your matrimonial life, before the CWC of your area. The official of the CWC direct him to appear and if not appear to resolve the matter in dispute , then your complaint will turn into FIR under different sections , like 498A.
You can also file maintenance case against him as malafidely he deport you India from abroad.
Finally, against your will your husband cannot get divorce from you.
Better you file a suit for restitution of conjugal rights under section 9 of Hindu marriage act if you want to live with him. This will give you upper hand over him when he files divorce case as this will be decided first even if he files for divorce.
1) you can make complaints against him in India under women cell un the police station and online on website "National Commission for Woman". National Commission mostly work for women's who have dispute with their NRI husband.
Hello mam, you can initiate legal proceedings against him at your native place in INDIA .. it is advisable to file maintanace application under 125 Crpc and a complaint of domestic violence in court
Dear Madam,
If you want you can apply for divorce but you are not qualified for divorce at this initial stage of marriage unless you have special grounds as enumerated in the Law. Better wait for 1 year and go for mutual divorce with sufficient alimony, without any hurdles.
Thank you for the response. We have been married for 6 years and no kids yet. And I am under infertility treatment. We dint have much problems as husband and wife other than day to day things. He says even though he had good times never felt very committed in the relationship. I am suprised with his behaviour to alienate me and refuse for a marriage counselling also. Can I give him a ultimatum for reconciliation ? If he doesn't respond until then., later proceed with reconstitution of conjugal rights and request for marital counselling through court ?
Hi madam,
Yes you can go for divorce as per section 13 B of Hindu marriage act 1955 through mutual consent after one year of your wedding..!! And madam even if you want to get separated from him you can ask him permanent alimony and come out of that knot or else if you want your husband you can file several cases on as claiming for conjugal rights, maintenance etc..!! Do call me for effective details
Yes, give him an ultimatum for reconciliation and for restitution of conjugal rights, by sending a legal notice to him through a lawyer.
Yes, if he doesn't responds, file a case here for restitution of conjugal rights.
Yes before going to.court try resolving for last time between you two, also you.can give a notice of restitution and counselling without going to court if refuses file before Hon'ble family court for restitution.
You can request your husband to reconsider his decision
2) if he refuses file for RCR
3) court would refer parties for counselling
If you give him ultimatum chances of him filing divorce Case before you file RCR suit is more. Once you file RCR even if he files objection court will refer matter to mediation and most times cases get sorted out in mediation.
Since you clearly want to save your marriage, you can file for Restitution of Conjugal Rights. I, however, would advise you to not give him an ultimatum per se and directly file the case as otherwise he would file abroad and obtain a Divorce before you can file your Petition.
When husband got abroad work opportunity, took me there with dependent visa and after 10 days he asked to live separate and sent me back to India in next 5 days. Now he says he want one year to figure out and settle down and divorce to be applied after one year.
What is the reason for seeking divorce.
You can refuse to give divorce if you are not willing to the proposal.
You can file a RCR petition even now if you feel that he is separated and may never wanted to rejoin you.
Agreeing for divorce is not an advisable move,if you have decided not to break up this relationship.
1. Has he fallen for some one else?
2. What is the point in giving him ultimatum for reconciliation? Is he waiting for it from to reconcile with you? Reconciliation in marriage can not be forced upon and no body can be forced by the Court to stay with his/her wife/husband if he/she does not want to.
3. He/she can be forced to pay compensation for damaging other's life and directed to pay maintenance if the wife (very rarely husband also) ids not capable of financially maintaining herself.
4. Court can direct counselling which he can attend and refuse and in that case the counselor will report that counselling has failed.
Try for reconciliation and include elders in the family to solve it peacefully. If it still doesn't work out you can go for filing RCR restitution of conjugal rights.Yes, court can refer to the martial counseling.
You can file Divorce if you have one year of separation. If he doesn't come to court you will get exparte divorce.