• Regarding torture the family gives me

Actually iam facing many tortures and man handling by my family and Iam 19 yrs old so I don't want to be with them and I have even gave a statement that I have no relation with my family and responsible for anything in my family .But my mom on the next day she wrote a statement that I will commit suicide and my son is responsible for that she is blackmailing me and forcing to stay with her if she really commits suicide will I be accused because I have already stated that I'm not responsible for anything in my family because tomorrow even I have a future where I want to be alone .
Asked 7 years ago in Family Law
Religion: Hindu

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14 Answers

1.Do not worry as no one commits suicide who gives such threat.One who does never gives priorwarning.

2.You are an adult and nobody can force you to later your own choice or decisison in life.

3.SO you can always start reading away from your parents provided you can sustain yourself in all respect.

4.For this you need not send or write any letter though there is no harm if you leave your home.go else where and inform the local police about you going somewhere else willingly.

5.However parents would always rebuke a child to reform him and these may not be tortures.So take your decision after much deliberations with your peers and without haste.

Devajyoti Barman
Advocate, Kolkata
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520 Consultations

Hello,

You may gave a statement with regards to this in the police station and may leave then.

You will not be responsible if your mother then does anything. If you do not have any regrets with regards to this then definitely you do not have any legal hurdle.

Regards

Anilesh Tewari
Advocate, New Delhi
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1)you are only 19 years old .you are too young have not completed your studies and are not working

2)at this stage of life you should not stay alone away from family

3)visit a family counsellor with your parents to resolve your differences

4) in the alternative involve elders in your family for amicable settlement

Ajay Sethi
Advocate, Mumbai
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7864 Consultations

sir...

social advice......as we are hindu and in hindu's there are several time where a son spoiled his whole life for a saying such as Bhagwan shree RAM..sir in your age a stage come's where you think that you are supiror and knows each and everything .but it was just a problem of mind...is that issues are such a big where mother is saying to commit sucide and sun will responsible for it ..?? sir mother is next to god in hindu religon ...plz make her convince she will forgive you and plz maintain peace in your family .....

legal advice.....what is 306 of IPC where any person instigate another to such an extent where he think that sucide will be better and that person comittes sucide then all the facts which are part of same tranction shall be considred by the court as relevent fact...which might create part of same transtion ....you can also read clause 2 of section 32 of evidence act...

THANKU

Dinesh Sharawat
Advocate, Delhi
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Don't worry. If you are not found to have stayed with your family for long then such suicide note doesn't have much value.

I repeat your mother will never commit suicide whether you stay with them or not.

Devajyoti Barman
Advocate, Kolkata
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520 Consultations

1) in the event your mother commits suicide Police will lodge case agiaint you for abetment to suicide as your mother has clearly written that you are the cause of her suicide

Ajay Sethi
Advocate, Mumbai
97333 Answers
7864 Consultations

Dear ...

If she is saying and in future she commits sucide you are responsible and the court will consider all such things which are relavent to her death ...Plz ask her to make peace in family I am sure she will not Denis ..And she if you want to escape from all the be polite for some time and convince her to take back his statement which she recorded in the concerned police station ....This is the only way ..Be polite and request her to maintain peace in family and leave happily..

Thanku

Dinesh Sharawat
Advocate, Delhi
1265 Answers
12 Consultations

Hi, comitting sucide is itself a offence ..it is advisable to give a complaint in the local police station about her threat and keep a copy of the complaint with you .. The complaint copy will safe guard you if unfortunately any such incident happens in future

Hemant Chaudhary
Advocate, Gurgaon
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67 Consultations

You can inform the Police of the torture and harassment you are being meted out at the hands of the parents.

Also, the next time your mother blackmails you with suicide, you must record this, preferably in a video. This will be of help incase you ultimately land into an untoward situation.

The Constitution of India confers upon you the fundamental right to movement. This is one of the most basic rights of an individual; and hence, you kept in a confinement

Vibhanshu Srivastava
Advocate, Lucknow
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312 Consultations

You might be put into question and you will not be held guilty.

File an application in the PS that you are being harassed and threatened and therefore you are leaving, and then you may leave.

Regards

Anilesh Tewari
Advocate, New Delhi
18090 Answers
377 Consultations

See if do not have done anything then you do not need to worry, just have faith in the process of law and live your life peacefully. Nothing will happen by writing these kind of statement.

Laksheyender Kumar
Advocate, Delhi
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2 Consultations

If you have decided to leave your house for unable to tolerate the tortures, you just communicate your decision in writing to your parents and endorse a copy to the local police about it and leave the house. You don't worry about your mother's threats, she will not commit suicide, she is just trying to scare you.

This communication will protect you.

T Kalaiselvan
Advocate, Vellore
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2349 Consultations

Why are you confused about nothing

Let your mother give such statement to police, she can be booked for suicide attempt.

Since you have given a detailed communication narrating the facts and the reasons that compelled you to leave the house or snapping the relationship, by sending a copy of this communication to the local police, you can sigh a relief

T Kalaiselvan
Advocate, Vellore
87534 Answers
2349 Consultations

Hi

You could get a notice published in local newspapers that you will not be responsible for any kind of harm to anyone .

But if you take my advice , get in touch with some counsellor who might make the things simple for you by explaining the important aspects of life.

There is whole life to live alone brother, as long as parents are alive , enjoy life with them. But this is your life and you have to decide.

Also you can get yourself Evicted legally from the family by due process . Then you should not be liable for anything happening with your family members.

Thank You

Rahul Jatain
Advocate, Rohtak
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