1) courts are over burdened . you have to wait for your turn
2) defendant can make application to court to condone delay in filing WS . court would permit filing of WS in interests of justice
3) court an grant visitation rights once week on sundays . during school holidays you cna claim that child should be permitted to stay with his father
4) court would consider child preference and child statement that she does not want to meet her father . however court can draw inference that child has been tutored by her mother
5) you can seek joint custody of child
6) disposal of DV / divorce/ custody cases depend upon pendency of cases in court in your city
7) generally it takes around 5 years for disposal of cases