I want my wife and son back in my life. This type to incidence happened third time in our married life of 9 years. I have 8 years old son. Last year also she left home because I slapped her. I slapped her last year because she was making false allegation that I cut my son's finger while cutting pomegranate .Actually my son was cutting pomegranate and I was just resting beside him.  she made false allegation that I cut his finger. She shouted at my mother and said to my mother and tried to establish that I have injured my son. 
I love my son and wife and I want my son to excel in life.  I want he should learn all things and I want to make him strong  emotionally, mentally and intellectually. I always motivate my son to do things on his own and I am always there with him to support and guide. I always says to my son that Swanand You are good boy, intelligent boy, brave boy and Swanand your are good at maths, science, drawing,sports and everything. I always say to my son that your are very innovative, creative and intelligent, brilliant boy and you can do every thing which is good. You are good at everything and I always take his studies , play with him, take him to park or garden, take him to adventure park or peshwe park in pune. I alway tries to tell him stories or scientist,astronauts, Indian- Air-force,army, navy, good people, successful people, stories of Indian freedom fighters and other good things. I used to take him to various scientific exhibition( DIPEX ,Indo-German Mela,) , biodiversity train which comes to Khadki Station Pune. I always tried to inculcate good habits, create thrust for education, innovation, culture. I used to take his studies ,home work and other extracurricular activities. I used to demonstrate various scientific experiments which are feasible at home. I believe in practical learning and motivate my son to do so. My son also loves me a lot and he like the way I teach him and learns fast. I never said any bad words to my son. I have not beaten my son in entire life. I always believe that what ever I know I should share with others so that others also get benefits and I always learn from others. I am open to learn even from juniors or my son. I used to tell my wife you study 5 new English words and tell to our son and ask him to write multiplication tables. Teach him some new concept ( scientific, geographical,historical or any thing good new things from internet /google.) I practice this things with my son but my wife never took interest to do all these things. She said that our son is her priority and still she is not doing any thing to motivate him for studies, she is not taking him to park for play or she is not teaching him any new thing which creates interest and develop his personality, intellect, etc.  
I want to develop my son in such way that he should be confident, brilliant, help to others, and help our self to excel in life and do good things. I taught my wife two wheeler /4 wheeler driving / bank transactions/ handle all things like online payments/booking  etc. I always motivate my wife to do good things for our son and family. I always go with her for shopping and other important things and support her in all ways. I compliment her and appreciate her for all her good things.  She does not reciprocate with my compliments. I always share good or bad things which happened with me in office or in field work. I believe in transparency and sharing. She does not share her good or bad things or she never express happiness if some good thing happens with me or her. Five years we spent in Goa as I was doing job in Goa but she never said single word  good about Goa (Nature,Sea,etc). We used to go to beaches, go for temple visits etc but she seldom expressed interest in doing so. I learned Konkani language in Goa but she did not learned Konkani inspite of motivating her to do so.
She was just sleeping at home and cooking food for me. I used to tell her that we have lot many books of various categories with us so read them so that you can spend your time in nice way. I suggested her if she is interested to do any course or education for her personality development and better future. she was pursing PGDBO course from Institute of Finance and Banking Panajim. I used to take her studies after finishing my work.  I used to motivate her for studies, personality development. I used to tell  her that what ever she learns in her PGDBO class she should tell me so that I can give my inputs to make her understand the subject and make her comfortable. I used to drop and pickup her to her class from Margaon to Panjim everyday. I used to take care of our son the whole day. But she was not reciprocating to my appeal or request or sharing things so one day I kicked her on her leg while driving. This was the first time.  First time( Dec 2011) she left home after this incidence happened in goa and she returned home after 4 months. Second time means last year 2015  she left home and returned home after 2.5months and that time her parents took in writing that I will not beat her and she returned home and third time ie 26August 2016 she left home because I slapped her while trying to remove her fear. She was not staying in my home out of fear because she meet her friend whose husband committed sucide. 
I love my wife and son very much and I cant live without them and this I have conveyed to her and parents. I said sorry and apologized for my mistake of slapping my wife and requested them to send her back. I mate her parents with my friend and some know person/ relative  that time her father told that my wife's uncle will take the decision whether to send her back or not. When I mate her uncle he was positive but when my father mate her uncle he  said my wife's father and my wife is not ready to send her back to my life. One of her relative told my father that my wife want to come back to me but her father is not ready to send her. When I approach them they just don't speak they ask Sarpanch of Village to speak on behalf of him and they just postpone to send her back to me. On 8th November 2016 my father in-law called me and said he will not send my wife back in my life and they will not take divorce. He told me if you want divorce you put divorce petition or you do second marriage then we will see want to do. I said to him do not provoke me  to do any wrong thing. I requested them you send my wife as I love her and I am not going to take divorce. He said to me that he knows law and provoked me to do some violent act but I was cool and calm.  After that I mate him with my friends , mother and one relative that time they replied my brother ie my wife's uncle will decide what to do but  when my father mate my wife's uncle to tell him that they should send my wife and son back as early as possible because last 3 months my son is not going to school and if he does not attend school then school will terminate his admission and he has to take admission from 1st standard because as per education rules 85% attendance is must to promote him to higher class and school can not repeat him for 2nd standard then her uncle said why you are bothered about your grandson's education I will give him admission in any school and pass him you decide what you will do about daughter in-law. He said he will talk to his brother and convince him to send. My father in-law is forcing to settle down in our native place and start business instead of service which I am not ready to do at this moment at-least. I need help. 
I want my wife and son back in my life as I love both of them. Should I do send Restitution of Conjugal Right section 9 notice to them and what are the complications or Can I get my wife back with RCR or what should I do to get them back in my life.

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Please suggest me what to do to get my wife and son back in my life.

My wife and my father in-law is not bothered about my son's education. I can wait for her but my son's education year is lost so I am requesting them to send her back soon. I will make my wife feel comfortable